LOVE IS GOD, GOD IS LOVE, LIVE IN LOVE
God is love and love is God. When you hold on to this principle of love
and develop love to love relationship, you will attain the state of
non-dualism. (Telugu poem)
Embodiments of Love!
You have come here with a lot of expectation to take part in the
conference. Though your stay at Prasanthi Nilayam is short, your
experiences are profound and you have described them at length in your
speeches. However, you deserve much more.
The day on which all the devotees gather and sing the glory of God
melodiously; the day on which the sufferings of the poor are lovingly
removed and all people live like brothers and sisters; the day on which
groups of Dasas (servants of God) who constantly contemplate on God are
served a sumptuous feast; the day on which noble souls visit us and
narrate the stories of God lovingly; enjoy that day as the real day. All
other days are mere death anniversaries. Do I need to say more, oh noble
souls! (Telugu poem)
Embodiments of Love!
In this conference, you have dealt at length on various aspects such as
the duties and responsibilities of youth and how they should mould their
character. Let all your activities be suffused with love. Modern youth
fail to understand the true meaning of love. Love cannot exist if there is
a feeling of duality. Ekatma Prema (non-dual love) is true love. Give and
take relationship does not reflect the true spirit of love. One should
keep giving and giving, without expecting anything in return. That is true
love. To retreat in times of difficulty is the sign of selfish love.
Yathartha Prema (true love) will reign supreme only when you give up
Swartha (selfishness) and strive for Parartha (welfare of others). You
should know the difference between Padartha (matter) and Yathartha
(reality). Reality transcends matter. Sarvam Khalvidam Brahma (verily all
this is Brahman). Consider everything as divine and treat the dualities of
life such as pain and pleasure, loss and gain with equanimity. Sukhadukhe
Samekruthwa Labhalabhau Jayajayau (one should remain unaffected by
happiness and sorrow, gain and loss, victory and defeat). Never be carried
away by the vagaries of the mind. When you follow the mind, you see only
matter, but not the reality. Mind is related to matter. You should not
have anything to do with matter. When you associate yourself with the
mind, you can never visualise unity. You cannot develop true love and
devotion unless you give up duality.
Embodiments of Love!
Understand that the same principle of love exists in you and others. A
true devotee is one who understands the principle of unity and acts
accordingly. Non-dualism is true devotion. Share your love with others
without any expectation. Love everybody only for the sake of love. When
you extend your love to others’, you can attain the state of non-dualism.
The love that you experience at physical and worldly plane day in and day
out is not true love at all! True love is that which is focused on one
form, one path and one goal. It is a great mistake to divide love and
divert it in different directions. Love is God. God is love. Live in love.
Only then can you realise the principle of oneness and attain fulfilment
in life. Prema Muditha Manase Kaho Rama Rama Ram… (Sing the sweet name of
Rama with your heart filled with love). You may choose any name you like,
but you should call Him with all love. Love is most sacred, sweet and
non-dual. It is a great mistake to divide such love and associate it with
multiplicity. Your love should remain steady in pleasure and pain. Love
and devotion do not give any scope for differences. All differences are
the making of your mind. Develop the feeling of oneness that you and I are
one. Never think that you and I are different. That is the sign of true
The letter ‘I’ stands for oneness. ‘You’ (individual identity) will not
exist when you develop purity and experience oneness with divinity. Hence,
give up dualistic feeling. The principle of oneness has to be experienced
through love. It cannot be explained in words. But you have not understood
the true meaning of love. You are interpreting it in the physical and
worldly sense. Consequently, your love is never steady. It keeps changing
every now and then. Love should not be tainted with body attachment. Body
is made up of matter. All that is related to matter will never give you
peace and happiness. Hence, transcend the matter and see the reality.
Develop Ekatma Bhava (feeling of oneness). All are one, be alike to
everyone. It is a big mistake to attribute worldly feelings to love. There
is no scope for dualism in love.
Embodiments of Love!
Your names and forms are different but the principle of love is the same
in all of you. That is why I address you as the “embodiments of love”.
Love is always one, it should not be divided. Consider God as one and love
Him wholeheartedly. Such one-pointed love towards God can be termed as
true devotion. Devotees like Jayadeva, Gauranga and Eknath developed such
divine love and sanctified their lives. Likewise, Mira and Sakhubai had
unwavering love and devotion towards God. They did not worship various
names and forms. They followed one path. They installed one name and one
form in their heart and contemplated on their chosen deity incessantly.
Those who are dual-minded and change their path every now and then are
bound to ruin their lives. Hence, never be dual-minded. Experience
divinity with Ekatma Bhava. You may choose any name you like Rama,
Krishna, Easwara, etc., and contemplate on the form. You will certainly
reach the goal of life. Lead your life with your mind always focused on
Once Radha could not find Krishna anywhere. As she was deeply attached to
Krishna’s physical form, she went in search of Him everywhere. She always
yearned and pined for His physical proximity. The name and the form are
one and the same. However, people are unable to enquire deeply and
experience such oneness.
The power of love is unparalleled. It is beyond the ken of human
understanding. Love can be understood only through love. Mira’s husband
Rana had built a Mandir for Krishna. Being a great devotee of the Lord,
Mira was always found in the Mandir singing His glory ecstatically.
Consequently, she earned the wrath of Rana. He commanded her to leave the
Mandir. This came as a great shock to Mira. She thought to herself, “When
Krishna is all-pervasive and not confined to this Mandir alone, how can
Rana take me away from Him?” She left her home and hearth and set out to
Mathura. Where is Mathura? It is not some geographical location. The heart
suffused with nectarine love is Mathura. She sang, Chalo Re Man Ganga
Yamuna Teer (Oh mind! Go to the confluence of Ganga and Yamuna). Here
Ganga and Yamuna symbolically mean Ida and Pingala (left and right
nostrils). The central part of the eyebrows where Ida and Pingala meet
stands for Mathura. This is the esoteric meaning of the song. She
proceeded towards Mathura chanting the Name of Krishna incessantly
crossing rivers, hills, dales and forests. When she ultimately reached
Brindavan, she found the temple doors closed. In spite of her repeated
prayers, the doors did not open. Then she said, “Oh Krishna, my heart is
Your temple. I have installed You in the altar of my heart.” She banged
her head against the temple door, calling out to Krishna. She had the
vision of Krishna and merged in Him. King Rana repented for having driven
away Mira from the temple. He prayed to Krishna for forgiveness.
People these days do not enquire into the inner meaning of certain words
they use. They are carried away by the worldly meanings and
interpretations. You should take into consideration the feelings that
emerge from your heart which is true and eternal. This is how Mira
experienced oneness with Krishna. If one wishes to tread the path of
devotion, one should hold on to the principle of love firmly. Ordinary
mortals do not have such firm determination, but a true devotee will never
deviate from the path of love under any circumstances. No other path
except love can take us to God. Develop love more and more. Wherever you
are, love is your sole refuge.
Embodiments of Love!
Fill your hearts with love and let love be the guiding principle in all
your activities when you return home. When you have love in your heart,
you do not need to worry about anything. God will always be with you, in
you, around you and will look after you in all respects. When you say,
“Krishna, I will follow You.” It means that Krishna is separate from you.
It is possible that you will lose your way. Hence, you should pray,
“Krishna, please be with me always.” In fact, He is always in you. When
you enquire deeply, you will experience this truth. It is impossible to be
away from Him. Many devotees proclaim, “Oh God, I am in you, I am with you
and I am for you.” They repeat these words like parrots, but do not say
from the depths of their heart. Actually, God is never separate from you.
Pray to Him wholeheartedly with the conviction that He is always in you,
with you, above you, below you and around you. When you offer such a
prayer to God, He will certainly redeem your life.
We have one more day left. I will explain all these in detail so that you
will understand them better. Do not feel satisfied with what you have
experienced so far. There is much more to be experienced which will fill
your heart with bliss. How can you say that your hunger is satisfied by
eating a little? There is a lot of scope for you to experience divinity in
full measure in the days to come.